“GOD BLESS BOURBON”

– Jack Holder


Jack and Anne Holder’s love story began with a chance encounter on a
snowbound train in 1952. In late December 1951, my mother Anne, along
with her friend Joyce departed from France aboard the SS Queen Mary
and headed for home and arrived back in New York on January 05, 1952.
Less than a week later they boarded a train from New York bound for
Chicago, across the Rockies and Sierras and back to the Bay Area to visit
their families, on a course that would change her life forever.
When they arrived in Chicago, they boarded another train called “The City
of San Francisco” that would take them to their destination in San
Francisco. Unbeknownst to mom a handsome 39-year-old WWII Marine
Corps veteran came on board, returning from a Dairy Queen Convention
and was heading home to Roseburg, Oregon and his name was Jack
Holder.
On Sunday, January 13, the train they were traveling on slammed into a
deep snow embankment 20 miles west of Donner Pass, causing it to derail
and trapping the 200 passengers in a blizzard for three days. Jack and
Anne joined one another in a still functioning box car, shared some dinner
and a couple of bourbons together. Before the storm would pass and
rescue trains would arrive, Jack and Anne were given plenty of time to get
acquainted.

Nearly three years later, on November 02, 1954, mom and dad were
married in Roseburg, Oregon. They had hopes for having two children a
girl and a boy and their dreams were realized. As dad had said many
times over, “then all hell broke loose” and the boys (six sons) just kept
coming. Dad once said, if he ever was to write a book the title would be
“God Bless Bourbon!”
Years after dads passing, mom reconnected with Joyce after nearly five
decades. As things happened in those days, they had sadly just lost track
of one another. As they reminisced about their travels and lives, Joyce
acknowledged she had married and had a family of her own and like mom
she too was widowed. As the conversation closed, Joyce asked the pivotal
question: “Whatever happened to the man you met on the train?”
This serendipitous encounter led to a lasting marriage, a family legacy, and
a chain of successful restaurants in the Bay Area. Their business acumen
and warm hospitality made their establishments popular fixtures in the
community since 1957.